Have you ever tried to talk to someone who isn’t listening–or who never gives you a turn to speak?
It’s frustrating-and it happens to kids every day. They’re told to listen as we instruct, direct, and correct them. Yet when they’re speaking, instead of paying attention, we’re often waiting to tell them something else.
Listening may be the most important part of conversation with kids. It’s a time when we can learn about them–and even learn from them (sometimes, we find out that they already know quite a few of the things we’re intent on telling them). And while paying attention to the rambling stories of a 7-year-old takes patience, it’s well worth the effort. Nothing builds children’s self-esteem like
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